Hear me out:

If you're here, that's because you want what's best for your kids.

But your kids often don't care about what's best for them. They protest. Shout. Slam doors. Cry.

And while they will probably accept your parental controls at first - especially if it was a condition to get a smartphone, there is a moment when your kids will be pissed off about it:

They'll feel restricted. They'll see some of their friends have access to things they don't. And they'll tell you it's unfair. They'll feel like you don't understand them.

And you and I don't want that to happen.

I didn't create a foolproof parental control method to make kids miserable. And you don't set parental controls to upset your kids.

Why am I telling you this? Because I found a solution to this issue. Listen:

It was with my mentor's daughter. She was at an age when every little thing could grow into a week-long fight: 16 years old.

And this night, she wanted to go to a party where no adult was present.

I was expecting the discussion to end with her crying in her bedroom after having told their parents how much she hates them and whatever teens do when they're upset.

But the opposite happened:

After a short conversation, she agreed with her dad that she was too young to go out to this kind of party, thanked him, told him she loved him, and hugged him. She spent the rest of the night with her family - without pouting.

Unbelievable, right?

She may be the most well-behaved teen in the world!

Well, it actually has nothing to do with her personality. She's like every kid and teen you've ever met. Her behavior that night was due to how her dad handled the situation:

Like a chef.

Instead of saying no to his daughter, he used three words to show her that he was on her side. It instantly defused the incoming storm of emotions that was on the way.

Then he asked a question that put his daughter in his shoes. It made her feel every fear he had. It made her perceive every bad thing that could happen.

And it made her understand that he would be a horrible, non-loving dad if he'd let her daughter go out to a party with no adults.

Note that he didn't tell her so. He didn't try to convince her.

Because the question he asked made his daughter do the job for him.

It was so powerful that she accepted by herself not to go out.

Her dad never said no once. He never had to. He just used simple parenting techniques that every loving parent on earth wishes they'd know.

It's the kind of techniques that I'm right now packing into a guide, helped by savvy parenting specialists.

I intend to sell this guide for at least $47, maybe $97. But it doesn't matter. Because, if you help me make it the best guide ever, I'll give it to you for free once it comes out.

All you have to do is answer the questions I ask you in this survey.

Don't be afraid to write too much - the more you tell me about what you need, the better the guide will be!

And thanks again for your trust.

Love ya,